My Childhood Had Eight Wheels

When I think back on my childhood years in Hampton, Virginia, I don’t remember only the big milestones. I remember the rhythm of everyday life—the walk through the neighborhood, school mornings, the friends I made along the way, and the thrill of knowing that even an ordinary Saturday could turn into an adventure.

During my adoptive daddy’s assignment at Langley Air Force Base, I spent second through eighth grade living in a modest house at 136 Glenwood Road, just off the base. Like many military families, we understood that assignments could change and that places might not last forever. Yet those years became some of the most important chapters of my childhood.

A typical day in my life during those years was filled with school, neighborhood friends, and discovering the world around me. But Saturdays held a special kind of magic—especially once roller skating became part of my life.

My love of skating actually began before Virginia. During summer visits with cousins in rural Texas, I learned to skate on old-fashioned metal skates that clamped onto the bottoms of my shoes with a key. We skated on a cement driveway, learning balance, stopping, and recovering from the inevitable falls. Those early experiences planted a lifelong love of skating.

When I was seven, my adoptive mother enrolled me in skating lessons. Every Saturday morning became a ritual. She would drop me off at the skating rink for my lesson and the morning skate session, then return later to pick me up.

Looking back now, it amazes me that at seven years old I could spend that much time at a skating rink without an adult who personally knew me being there. But the 1970s were a different time. Children had more independence, parents trusted their communities, and small adventures felt perfectly normal.

Those Saturday mornings felt like stepping into another world. 

My adoptive mother made me a dark green skating outfit with white polka dots. I tied pom-poms onto my skates, adding my own special touch. In that outfit, I felt transformed. It was my Cinderella moment—not at a royal ball, but at the skating rink, with music playing, lights shining, and a smooth floor waiting for me to glide across it.

Skating was more than just fun—in the rink was where I developed confidence, discipline, and a love for learning new skills. As my skating improved, I began competing in skating competitions. Each competition challenged me to become a better skater, and I proudly earned several award patches for mastering new skills and reaching skating milestones. I looked forward to sewing each new patch onto my skating jacket as a reminder of the hard work and determination that had earned it.

As I grew older, skating became woven into my everyday life. Friends from the neighborhood shared my love of skating, and together we created memories that went far beyond circles around a rink.

We took part in Skate-A-Thons, where we were “locked in” all night, skating until morning. Those events felt like grand adventures. We stayed awake as long as we could, competed in skating contests, laughed with friends, and celebrated the joy of being together.

One of my favorite events was the dance contest. My friends and I would pair up and create our own version of “The Bump.” We practiced our moves and felt like we were part of the vibrant music and dance culture of the 1970s.

By fifth grade, roller skating had become a major part of my social life. A typical weekend meant heading to Plaza Roller Rink at 1924 E. Pembroke Ave., Hampton. Friday nights, Saturday nights, and sometimes Sunday afternoons were often spent there. It was where my friends and I gathered, where friendships deepened, and where childhood memories were made.

Our families took turns dropping us off and picking us up. Parents and older siblings were our transportation, our safety net, and our connection to these little adventures. It was a simpler time—one in which we knew our friends would be there, the music would be playing, and the night would be full of laughter.

One particular memory has remained as vivid today as it was then.

My adoptive daddy came to pick us up one evening in his beautiful royal blue-and-white ragtop Plymouth Road Runner. I was thrilled when he lowered the convertible top. Riding through Hampton with the wind blowing felt like the greatest thing in the world.

Then, as we approached my friend’s street, the car slowed.

I knew what that meant.

My daddy had spotted something sitting on the curb.

An old vacuum cleaner.

“Oh no,” I thought.

My daddy was a fixer-upper by nature. He saw potential where other people saw junk. While I was hoping to stay cool in that amazing convertible, he pulled over, loaded the vacuum cleaner into the trunk, and kept going.

At the time, I was mortified.

Now, that memory makes me smile because it captured exactly who he was—resourceful, practical, and always willing to give something old a second chance.

Plaza Roller Rink became the setting for many firsts in my life. It was where I met my first boyfriend, shared my first French kiss, learned to play pinball, and spent countless hours with friends. During baseball season, our Saturdays often followed a familiar pattern—watching our favorite Little League players in the afternoon, then heading to the rink afterward.

Because skating was such a big part of my life, my parents bought me a monthly skating membership for just $25. Adjusted for inflation, that would be about $100 today. It was an investment that gave me endless hours of exercise, friendship, confidence, and unforgettable memories. Looking back, it was one of the best investments they ever made in my childhood.

Then came 1981, when my adoptive daddy retired from the military and our family moved to Texas.

As life often does, one chapter ended and another began. My skating adventures became less frequent as new interests took hold. Eventually, roller skating gave way to country and western dancing, another passion that became part of my story.

But skating never truly left me.

As an adult, I returned to skating whenever the opportunity arose. I skated at Skateland West and The Rollercade in San Antonio, Texas, and during business trips I visited Holiday Skate Center in Orange County, California, where the smooth hardwood floor brought back memories of those earlier days.

Genealogy is often built from documents—birth certificates, military records, census pages, and photographs. But family history is also found in the everyday details of a life: a little girl in a green polka-dot skating dress, pom-poms tied to her skates, friends waiting at the rink, parents making sure she got home safely, and a father who couldn’t resist rescuing a discarded vacuum cleaner.

Those moments tell future generations not just where I lived or what I did, but who I was.

My days may not have seemed extraordinary by the world’s standards.

But they were mine.

They were filled with music, laughter, friendship, family, and eight wheels carrying me toward memories that would last a lifetime.

Roller skating will always be part of who I am.

Hands That Ground the Frontier: Thomas Lindley's Grist Mill

In 1755, the quiet valleys along Cane Creek in what was then Orange County, North Carolina, welcomed more than another landowner—they welcomed a builder whose work would shape an entire community. Thomas Lindley, a pioneer Quaker and my 6th Great Grandfather, entered into an agreement with Hugh Laughlin on August 10, 1755, to construct the first grist mill in the valley. Their mill was far more than a place where grain was ground into flour; it became the economic and social center of a growing frontier settlement.

For the families scattered across the backcountry, earning a living depended upon the harvest. Corn and wheat had little value until they could be milled into meal and flour. Before Lindley’s mill existed, farmers often traveled many miles over rough roads to have their grain processed. The new mill transformed daily life. Neighbors arrived with wagons loaded with sacks of grain, exchanged news while waiting their turn, and returned home with the flour and meal their families depended upon. Every loaf of bread and every bowl of cornmeal represented not only the labor of the farmer but also the steady work of the mill. In colonial times, mills like Lindley’s served as the community hub for food and the crossroads of communication. Throughout its history, the site also hosted a blacksmith shop, sawmill, general store, and even operated a post office at various points during its long history. The mill’s location became a natural gathering place where commerce, worship, and neighborly ties intertwined.

The success of the enterprise reflected Thomas Lindley's industrious nature. Records from the Raleigh land grant office show that in 1755 he entered 640 acres on Cane Creek. Satisfied neither with standing still nor with limited opportunity, he gradually added to his holdings until later deeds identified him as one of the largest landowners in that part of the colony. His prosperity was built not on speculation but on providing an essential service to his neighbors while continuing to cultivate and improve his land.

As the settlement expanded, other businesses naturally gathered around the mill. Thomas established a store midway between the grist mill and the Spring Friends Meeting, serving both the practical and social needs of the community. Years later, the same location became the site of Lindley’s Store Post Office, which operated from about 1812 until 1866—a lasting reminder that the community first took root where people came to work, trade, and worship.

Life on the North Carolina frontier was not untouched by political unrest. During the Regulator Movement, colonial records indicate that a meeting of the Regulators was held at Thomas Lindley's home on May 11, 1768. Although he protested the perceived tyranny of Governor William Tryon and his administration, Lindley ultimately chose loyalty to his Quaker faith over political activism when forced to choose between the movement and his church. His commitment to the Society of Friends reflected the Quaker testimony of peace, even during turbulent times.

That commitment was tested again during the American Revolution. In 1781, the grist mill that had once symbolized peaceful labor became a military objective. British General Lord Cornwallis himself visited the mill to “purchase” flour for his army. During the Tory uprising, the mill supplied flour to opposing forces, and on September 13–14, 1781, the Battle of Lindley’s Mill was fought just below its banks. Whigs attempted to stop Loyalists escorting the fleeing royal governor, Josiah Martin, through the area. The battle was fierce, claiming the life of Patriot leader Hector McNeill and seriously wounding David Fanning’s arm before the Loyalists escaped.

Published 1781 by R. Baldwin, detached from the London Magazine, Vol. 50 (June 1781)

While fighting raged only a short distance from his home, Thomas Lindley lay dying nearby. Historical records provide no evidence that he was physically injured during the battle, but they leave readers to wonder whether the violence, gunfire, and bloodshed unfolding around the peaceful Quaker community weighed heavily upon him in his final hours. His own family, like many in the Carolinas, was divided between Whig and Tory sympathies. Thomas himself remained neutral, faithful to his Quaker principles despite the conflict surrounding him.

Thomas Lindley died on September 14, 1781—the very day his mill became forever linked to one of North Carolina's most significant Revolutionary War battles.

More than a century later, his life's work had not been forgotten. On August 25, 1928, descendants from across the nation gathered at Spring Friends Meeting to dedicate a memorial marker honoring the pioneer who had helped build their community. They remembered not only a landowner or a mill builder, but a man whose honest labor created opportunity for others.

Thomas Lindley's story reminds us that working for a living meant far more than earning an income on the colonial frontier. Through his grist mill, store, and stewardship of the land, he created a place where neighbors gathered, commerce flourished, and a community was born. Even when war swept across Cane Creek, the enduring legacy of his work remained—not the battle that bears his name, but the foundation he laid through years of faithful labor, service, and quiet perseverance. 

Today, Lindley Mills still operates on the same Cane Creek site, now producing organic flour and run by ninth- and tenth-generation Lindleys—making it one of the oldest continuously operating family businesses in North Carolina.

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All primary source information referenced was obtained from a variety of published and archival materials, including books, historic newspapers, U.S. census records, vital records, probate files, and land documents. These sources were accessed through leading genealogical platforms such as Newspapers.com, Ancestry, FamilySearch, Find a Grave, as well as through local, state & federal archival repositories, libraries and private collections. Interpretive narrative may also include Carol Anna Meyer Brooks' personal experiences or family stories shared with her throughout her lifetime.

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The Space Between Then & Now: My Adventures with Lost Stories

Most people wander into an antique store in search of something tangible—a weathered rocking chair, a first-edition novel, a forgotten trinket with a price tag. I drift toward something quieter, easier to overlook: old photographs.

There are hundreds—sometimes thousands—of them.

They aren’t preserved in albums. Instead, they sit stacked in boxes, scattered across shelves, or gathered loosely in trays—mixed in among other items, sometimes treated more like décor than memory. Most have no names, no dates, no identifying marks at all. Just faces—steady, patient, and silent.

Someone once took the time to pose for these photographs. Someone made the effort to have them developed, to hold them, to share them. Someone believed they would always be remembered.

And yet, here they are.

Whenever I pick one up, I can’t help but wonder how it ended up there. Was it swept away during an estate cleanout, its meaning lost to strangers? Did it pass through generations until the faces became unfamiliar? Was it part of a collection that was slowly broken apart over time?

I may never know those answers. But another question always rises:

Can I find this family?

That is where the adventure begins—but not every photograph can tell its story.

I’ve learned to look for the ones that can. A first and last name. A date. A place. Something solid enough to begin with. Without that, the search becomes guesswork—and that’s not a story I’m willing to assume.

When those details are there, even in the smallest way, they open the door.

A city directory can place a family on a street. A census record can reveal children whose ages align with the photograph. A marriage record can explain a name change. Newspaper articles begin to fill in the spaces—announcements, milestones, obituaries—until, piece by piece, a life begins to take shape.

But certainty takes patience. Names repeat. Records don’t always agree. Handwriting can mislead. One wrong assumption can send everything in the wrong direction, so each clue has to support the next before I can trust where it leads.

And sometimes, the trail reaches the present.

A granddaughter. A great-grandson. Someone who has never seen the photograph I’m holding.

I make a call or send a message, explaining where I found it and why I believe it belongs to their family. Not every attempt is successful. Some messages go unanswered.

But when they do, the response is often something special.

Because to them, it isn’t just an old photograph.

It is a face they’ve never seen before. A great-grandmother no longer just a name, but a person. A connection made visible. It is a missing piece of their story, returned when they never expected it.

For me, that moment never loses its meaning.

I may not be related to the people in the photograph, but for a time, I become its caretaker. My role is simple: follow the clues, respect the story, and guide it home if I can.

Not every photograph becomes a search. Some simply don’t offer enough to begin.

But the ones that do—those are the ones worth following.

Each photograph is a life that mattered. Each search is a quiet act of respect for people who lived, loved, and hoped to be remembered. And each reunion is a reminder that genealogy is not only about discovering our own past—it is also about restoring connections that time nearly erased.

I never know which photograph will catch my eye next, or where its story will lead. That uncertainty is part of the pull. Each image offers just enough to begin—and then waits.

Sometimes, the most meaningful discovery in family history isn’t found in your own tree.

Sometimes, it’s helping someone else reclaim a piece of theirs.

A Call to Action to the Reader:  take time to put names, places and dates on all your photographs!!

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All primary source information referenced was obtained from a variety of published and archival materials, including books, historic newspapers, U.S. census records, vital records, probate files, and land documents. These sources were accessed through leading genealogical platforms such as Newspapers.com, Ancestry, FamilySearch, Find a Grave, as well as through local, state & federal archival repositories, libraries and private collections. Interpretive narrative may also include Carol Anna Meyer Brooks' personal experiences or family stories shared with her throughout her lifetime.

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The Story That Keeps Unfolding: Felix G Jernigin

When I first found Felix Jernigin’s Tennessee land grant, I believed I understood it.

The document conveyed fifty acres in Giles County, written in the familiar language of an official state grant. It was the kind of record every genealogist hopes to uncover—clear, authoritative, and reassuring. It placed an ancestor on a specific piece of land at a specific moment in time. I filed it away as proof that Felix had become a Tennessee landowner.

North Carolina and Tennessee,

U.S., Early Land Records, 1753-1931

This year, I read it again.

This time, one sentence refused to let me move on.

"By virtue of Certificates No. 33 and 34 dated 1st March 1826 claimed under the Act of 1825 by No. 1622..."

For years, I had skimmed past those words, dismissing them as legal boilerplate. Now, they felt like a doorway I had never opened.

The more I studied Tennessee’s land system, the more the document changed in my hands. I realized the grant was not the beginning of Felix’s story—it was the final step in a long and structured process. Before Governor Sam Houston ever signed his name, Felix had already taken action: entering a claim, securing certificates, waiting as the machinery of the state moved forward. The land grant wasn’t the story. It was the conclusion.

So I started looking for the beginning.

What I found wasn’t another land record, but a name on an 1812 Bedford County tax list.

Felix appeared there as “Felix Jurnigan,” listed in Captain John McWilliams’ Company.

At first glance, it seemed routine. But in early Tennessee, militia organization and taxation were closely tied. Captain McWilliams wasn’t just a name—he represented a defined community, a network of men bound by geography and obligation. And suddenly, Felix was no longer just a landowner in Giles County. He was part of a place, a group, a moment years earlier.

I already knew that Felix appeared in the index to the Compiled Service Records of soldiers who served in the War of 1812, listed under Colonel Thomas Williamson’s 2nd Regiment of Tennessee Mounted Gunmen. Yet the full service record still eludes me. The index confirms it exists, but not what it contains. Could it name his company? Reveal when he enlisted? Or connect him directly to the Bedford County community where I had now found him?

Instead of answering my questions, the tax list made them sharper.

The land grant led me to Tennessee’s land laws. The laws led me to entry certificates. The search for those certificates carried me backward to Bedford County. The tax list introduced Captain John McWilliams. Now I find myself asking whether that local militia company connects to Felix’s later service in Williamson’s regiment.

Each record answers one question—and raises two more.

Did Felix know the men he would later serve beside? Did neighbors from McWilliams’ district enlist together? Did his military service shape where he settled after the war? Is Entry No. 1622 still waiting, somewhere, to reveal another piece of the story? And what will surface when I finally locate his complete military service record?

I don’t have those answers—yet.

But I no longer see the land grant as something I’ve finished with. It isn’t a conclusion. It’s an invitation.

Genealogy has again taught me that the richest sources are not always the ones that give the most answers, but the ones that refuse to stay quiet. They linger, they nudge, they leave threads unfinished. Felix Jernigin’s land grant has become one of those restless records for me—a document that doesn’t simply sit in the past, but keeps reaching forward. Each time I return to it, I don’t just find new details; I uncover new questions, new connections, and the unmistakable feeling that the story isn’t done yet.

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All primary source information referenced was obtained from a variety of published and archival materials, including books, historic newspapers, U.S. census records, vital records, probate files, and land documents. These sources were accessed through leading genealogical platforms such as Newspapers.com, Ancestry, FamilySearch, Find a Grave, as well as through local, state & federal archival repositories, libraries and private collections. Interpretive narrative may also include Carol Anna Meyer Brooks' personal experiences or family stories shared with her throughout her lifetime.

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The Magic and Mud of the Hurley Stock Tanks

Some of my favorite childhood memories were forged in the ripples of the Hurley stock tanks near Pleasanton, Texas. When I was young, there was simply no better sanctuary from the relentless, beating heat of a South Texas summer. Under that blazing sky, the cool, murky water of those tanks felt like an absolute paradise.

Our gateway to this oasis was my Uncle Burton, who would often round us up for a trip out to the Hurley farm. At the time, he was working with Hurley Funeral Home, and he possessed a unique knack for turning those long, dusty Texas afternoons into something magical. My grandfather was almost always there, alongside a lively crew of aunts, uncles, and cousins. Together, we transformed those livestock watering holes into a bustling family hub filled with echoes of laughter and synchronized splashing. When our fingers wrinkled and hunger set in, we would retreat to the shade for lunch. We feasted on simple sandwiches and chips, washing them down with local liquid gold: Big Red for me, and Dr Pepper—my grandfather’s absolute favorite—for him.

The journey to the tanks was an adventure in its own right. We would pile into the open bed of a pickup truck, white-knuckling the sides as it bounced and jolted down endless, red-dirt roads. Gigantic grasshoppers would explode from the roadside brush like popcorn, occasionally colliding with us as we sped past. Along the way, the road was punctuated by a series of heavy pipe gates. Opening and closing them was strictly kid business—a sacred, official duty assigned to us as the "toll" for our destination.

Before we could touch the water, however, we had to brave the barn to retrieve our vessels: old, heavy tire inner tubes. That barn was the stuff of childhood nightmares, guarded by colossal Texas barn spiders that give me the heebie-jeebies to this very day. Our strategy was simple: get in, grab the rubber, and get out before anyone—or anything—fanged found us.

To my childhood eyes, those tanks felt as vast as the ocean. We would spend hours swimming, playing, and daring one another to reach the wooden platform anchored out in the deep water. Successfully scrambling onto that floating stage felt like conquering Everest. Once there, we would line up to leap, plunge, and cannonball back into the depths, repeating the cycle without a single care in the world.

Getting into that water, however, required a bit of strategy. I absolutely despised wading through the shoreline. The sensation of thick, squishy mud and unknown muck oozing between my bare toes was deeply unsettling. I would hesitate at the edge, take a deep breath, and sprint or lunge into the deeper water as fast as possible, eager to break free of the bottom and swim out where the footing didn’t matter.

Later in the afternoon, we would sink into the center of those inner tubes and drift aimlessly. Lying flat on our backs, we watched the vast Texas sky, pointing out clouds shaped like dragons or horses, letting our imaginations map the horizon. Other times, we would peer downward through the greenish water, watching long, ribbon-like aquatic plants wave slowly in the waves, imagining a hidden, silent world right beneath our kicking feet.

Learning to swim in our family wasn’t exactly an Olympic training program; it was a crash course in survival. If you didn’t know how to swim, the time-honored family tradition was simple: toss them into the deep end. It was a literal sink-or-swim philosophy. Yet, somehow, everyone figured it out, thrashing their way to safety in those wide, muddy-green waters.

As children, we never questioned the geology or the economics of the tanks. We didn't care where the water came from. To us, the Hurley stock tanks were a world-class water park, a playground, and a family reunion hall all rolled into one.

It wasn't until years later that the curtain was pulled back and I understood their true, utilitarian purpose. They weren't built for vacationing children; they were stock tanks engineered to sustain cattle and ranch operations. I always knew cows drank from them, but as a kid, I completely glossed over the fact that heavy livestock also waded in them—wallowing and stirring up the exact same water we were joyfully swallowing and splashing in. Discovering the biological reality of what was actually suspended in that green water changed things. The adult, sanitized version of me looks back at those swimming holes with a slight, squeamish cringe.

Yet, even with the illusion shattered, I can never disconnect the place from the magic it held. The Hurley stock tanks might lose their luster under a modern, hygienic lens, but they remain permanently anchored to some of the happiest summers of my life. They stand as a monument to a simpler time—an era when adventure was found just down a red-dirt road, when an old tire tube was luxury entertainment, and when a muddy hole in South Texas felt like the greatest place on earth.

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All primary source information referenced was obtained from a variety of published and archival materials, including books, historic newspapers, U.S. census records, vital records, probate files, and land documents. These sources were accessed through leading genealogical platforms such as Newspapers.com, Ancestry, FamilySearch, Find a Grave, as well as through local, state & federal archival repositories, libraries and private collections. Interpretive narrative may also include Carol Anna Meyer Brooks' personal experiences or family stories shared with her throughout her lifetime.

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