Always & Forever My Daddy

 

When I think of an influencer in my life, I’ve had many. My daddy, William Henry Meyer, was born 22 January 1937 in Poteet, Atascosa County, Texas to Herbert Meyer and Loudie Ferguson.[i] The third child of his parents, pictured in his mother’s arms above, and named after his two grandfathers (Henry Sievers and Wilburn “Will” Ferguson). His mother passed away a short year later, 15 January 1938.[ii]  His father, Herbert, a widower at 29 years old with three children, was devastated with grief. My father and his siblings were raised in the homes of his uncle William Edward “Eddie” Ferguson, friends - Joe & Lola Hernandez, friends - Seth & Josie Williams and two years later adoptive aunt, Selma Meyer Curry.[iii]  His Aunt Selma and Uncle Bill Curry gave him structure, discipline and his foundation of faith. His father remarried in 1943 to Clara Maria Schorsch and the family was reunited as one again.

After graduating from high school in May 1955, he enlisted in the U.S. Air Force and was honorably discharged on 10 September 1959. He married Barbara Jeane Crawford on 10 January 1961 at the United Methodist Church in Cotulla, La Salle County, Texas.[iv] He re-enlisted in the USAF on 21 August 1963 and was stationed at Hickam Air Force Base, Honolulu, Hawaii on 26 September 1966. My father and his young wife agreed to adopt his younger sister's baby. His sister flew to Hawaii from Texas, I was born in a local hospital and the adoption was finalized afterwards.  I was raised a military brat!

While I certainly challenged my adoptive parents regularly, they loved me no less. My father was insistent that I know I was adopted at an incredibly early age and took every opportunity to share stories about my maternal biological family. He placed an envelope with the identity of my biological father in his desk and said that I could open it when I turned eighteen. When I reached the age of eighteen, he supported me in the journey to locate my biological father.

My Daddy raised me with a strong moral compass and incredible work ethic that he learned working on my grandfather’s dairy farm and throughout his military experiences. He took me on adventures that would shape my entire life, including sledding down our neighborhood hill in Nebraska, traveling through Germany in a camping van, starting elementary school in a British school (rather than a school on base), building various woodworking projects, canoeing down the St. James River in Virginia and visiting family burial plots across Texas to name a few. He instilled a love of family history and genealogy within me through his countless journals, family stories and photographs. I wished I had paid more attention to him. Nevertheless, he was selfless and courageous to adopt me and give me a life full of happiness and joy.

He honored his father’s wishes (for the most part; he was a rebel child though) and respected his family heritage that included always taking care of their family with unconditional love.

The Lord, no doubt, placed me in the loving arms of an Angel that had tremendous influence in my life. Though he is not with me physically today, I feel his nudges still and regularly experience those “Red Bird” sightings that many say signal an Angel is nearby. I’m certain he visits me often!

 

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[i] Texas Birth Index, 1903-1997; Roll Number 1937_0005; online database with images, Ancestry.com, (https://www.ancestry.com/imageviewer/collections/8781/images/TXBTH_1937_000515j?pId=2836493  : accessed 28 January 2024).

[ii] Texas, U.S., Death Index, 1903-2000; online database with images, Ancestry.com, (https://www.ancestry.com/imageviewer/collections/4876/images/txdth_19031940m-1674?pId=4436874  : accessed 28 January 2024); citing Texas Department of Health, State Vital Statistics Unit, Austin, Texas.

[iii] United States Census, 1940; online database with images, FamilySearch, (https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:3QS7-L9MY-HSRQ?view=index&personArk=%2Fark%3A%2F61903%2F1%3A1%3AKWNK-LLC&action=view  : accessed 28 January 2024).

[iv] Texas Marriage Records, LaSalle County, Texas; License No: 204; Book: 6; Page 99; Issued: 9 January 1961; United in Marriage: 10 January 1961 by Rev. Lee r. Geldmeier; Recorded: 16 January 1961 by Geo. E. Cook, County Clerk.